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How many dates before the first kiss?

Dear Advice Girl,

How many dates are normal before the first kiss?

Signed,
SDW

Dear SDW,

Don't you know you're never supposed to use the word "normal"? Except in, like, geometry class?

There’s no "normal" when it comes to first kisses. It's all about what you feel comfortable doing. Wanna hold off on kissing for a while? That's totally fine.

You don't have to do anything on the first (or second, or third, or fourth) date that you're not ready to do. And anyone who says otherwise is being a creep.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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I think it all depends on how comfortable you are with each other. If you went out with a real creep...would you kiss them on the first(last) date?
lee112, 16, Edgewater, BC

You can so wait. I waited for like almost two months before we kissed. But of course to some people a kiss means nothing but it should be cute and the longer the wait the more perfect moments you will find.
ashleynee, 15, Blanchard, OK

man thats a lie u dont got to wait cus on my first kiss was when we first ask ech other out
hotmommy121, 16, Mobile, AL

I agree with this. It all depends on the girl or guy f they want to or not. I hate little rules about dating that there are today. Like wait 3 days before you call. STUPID. just do what you feel is right. Not what other people say is right
cowboyhatjoe, 15, Conifer, CO

i got a girlfriend on tuesday and we werent even going out for a minute and we madeout for about 2 hours. so u dont need to wait.
pimpmaster555, 18, Westchester, IL

Nah why end it with the first day... thats just pushing it way to fast
chickenpow, 14, Overland Park, KS

Well i disagree i think that after a first date you shud always end it with a kiss, because the way u kiss them nd the length of time u take b4 pullin bck gives a message wether u enjoyed the date or not without the aquardness of findin the words to say MERR NEVER AGAIN LOL x
xxdandanxx2009, 19, United Kingdom

i made out the 2nt date he told me close your eyes and he just started kissing me and we where in public its o.k and he told me i kissed damn good its so awsome
tease11, 13, Bonita, CA