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Should I keep him a secret from my friends?

Dear Advice Girl,

I just got a new boyfriend. I told my BFF, and she told her BFF, so now almost my whole circle of friends knows about us. It makes me nervous about me and him. Should I keep my relationship a secret or should I tell?

Signed,
   Ami

Dear Ami,

You're allowed to keep lots of things from your friends - you know, like your Facebook password, your credit card number and even the name of your crush - but shoot, keeping your relationship a secret just isn't fair. So tell them.

(Besides, if you don't tell them, someone else will.)

And don't worry about whether or not it'll hurt your relationship. If you two can't even survive that, then you've got bigger problems on your hands.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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no one should be kept a secret cos 1 day they will find out
dan2007, 16,
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If you don't tell Ur friends bout him then maybe he might just get mad and think that your embarrassed of him.
riide4ubabiie29, 14, Sterling Heights, MI
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really tell ur friends. guys are important yes. but friends more so. and you don't wanna lose a friend over something that might not work. plus really there should only be one instance in which you she keep something involving a guy for ur BFF's and that is if ur married! so if ur not SPILL!
anonymous
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yes
juggalomark13, 14, Brownsburg, IN
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wait and see how it works out before you open your mouth
anonymous
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you should definitely tell your friends because well,, they are your friends.. and they will accept the guy because your friends love you and i'm sure they will be happy for you... ;)
apez28, 16, Philippines
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u should definitly tell others like the advice says if u dont someone will find out and tell like the whole skool....*200 bc* WOOT
snowpixy, 13, Owings Mills, MD
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well its much to late on this relation ship, but if it doesn't work out and you ever want to hide your relationship again, just be ninja and avoid letting them learn. none of their business if you really don't want to share it with them
malachi_nearly, 15, Henderson, NV
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well amie its okay to tell your friends that you have this guy and if thye don't accept that then they really arn't your true friends. So wat if people say that ew your datn him, as long as you both love each other and you think it'll work thatn go for it. Who cares wat they all think as long as you both are happy. I wish you luck!!!!!! Signed, halltomboy99
halltomboy99, 15, Washington, PA
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Ya u shouldn't care at least u don't get into trouble w/ your parents for having a bf
babyblue01111, 13, Yakima, WA

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