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Peer pressured into dating!

Dear Advice Girl,

At my school, a lot of people think I should go out with this one guy. He's my friend, and it would be weird for him to be more than that. But I’m starting to be talked into it.

My mom is really strict and would probably blow if she knew, and I don’t have any experience in dating...what should I do?

Signed,
   Hannah

Dear Hannah,

Your classmates are trying to pressure you into dating a guy, and that’s just as bad as any other kind of peer pressure. (And also kind of weird. Can’t they just worry about who they’re dating and leave your love life alone?)

It’s okay to turn to people for advice. (Shoot, I should know.) But if your gut’s telling you one thing, and a bunch of random people who couldn’t care less about your feelings are telling you another, then listen to your gut.

Which means, if you don’t want to date this guy, then don’t date him. And if people keep bugging you about it, tell them to mind their own business.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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date who you want not who someone else wants you to date but its always fun to date someone that pisses your parents off lol
darkkaire, 17, Ogden, UT
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this happened to me my m8s pressure me to go out with a mate and i was afraid to say no coz i dint wana hurt his feeling so i sed yes it dint work wellll i dint feel anything and as he was my frend it felt weird so it lasted 2 hours and he did actually like hm and it hurt him more me dumping him than me saying no in the 1st place but if you do ioke him then go 4 it mums are always protective but if you dont like him then do wots rite
anonymous
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dont do things just because ppl tell you LISTEN TO YOURSELF, HEART, MIND AND SOUL, AND BRAINS DO WHAT YOU THINK YOU WANNA DO OR DO WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO
snowpixy, 13, Owings Mills, MD
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Mothers kow best
leilani_17, 19, Roy, UT
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who gives a f w/ they say
babyblue01111, 13, Yakima, WA
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look do you want a really good friend or an ok boyfriend. Chances are your feelings won't change once you start dating. Tell your friends to back off.
anonymous
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mhmm... *200 bc's* :D
chikitah92, 16, Orlando, FL
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Well well, i think that fca_of_2007 should be mature enough to understand that to get a real love you need to trust upon the right people
anonymous
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if your friends think its a good idea go on ahead. its your life not hers.
thecutestshorty, 15, Spencer, IA
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just ask him out if u want but if u dont tell ur friends tat u dont wanna date him cuz u dont wanna risk ur friendship.
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