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My boyfriend and I are always fighting!

Dear Advice Girl,

I have been in a relationship for 6 months. We don’t talk as much as we used to, and we fight at least once a day. What can we do to bring back that spark we had when we first started dating??

Signed,
   Emo Love

Dear Emo Love,

All couples argue. But a fight a day is kind of a lot.

If it's about the same thing every time (like the fact that he never calls you), then it'll always be an issue – and if it's driving you that crazy, you shouldn't date him.

If it's not one big argument, but lots of little ones, then shoot, you might not be that compatible. It's probably time to say goodbye in that case, too.

Not ready to give up so soon? Then sit your guy down and try to get at the root of what’s really going on between you two. If you both want to make things work, then you've got to quit all the bickering and start compromising.

As for the "spark," well, don't obsess over it. Getting all giggly when you see your guy won't help much if you're gonna have a shouting match with him ten minutes later.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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spend a bit ov tym away from each other give each other some space ova the week to do the things u wanna do cos im goin through the same things wit ma las
dan2007, 16,
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Same thing happened with me. We fought over everything it was ridiculous. Then we broke up and now I realize we really should have earlier.
anonymous
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me and my guy fought every day but we got the spark back and have been together 9 months
sk8tchik14, 17, Jacksonville, FL
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i agree with sexy horny bubble just give it some time and then you guys will miss each other and then youll be fine!
anonymous
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YAY!!! **200 BC's** Srry no advice just listen to Advice Girl!!
leilani_17, 19, Roy, UT
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Separate
leilani_17, 19, Roy, UT
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well that "spark" is known as lust, or physical attraction, yea it seems like love but is easily disguised. if you two are really "in love" or whatever then you wouldn't be fighting and you'd be able to talk about anything any time. that's how me and my gf are and we've been going for 7 months.
dbsige, 16, Oklahoma City, OK
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it happened to me..as much as it hurt i broke up with him...turned out we became friends..we never fight now..turns out that we were meant to be friends and we laugh over the whole thing now. He's happy and thats all i really cared about. dont you?
anonymous
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In My Opinion, You Should Separate. Not Necessarily Dump Him, Just Give Eachother Time Apart, So You Can Realise How Much You Appreciate Eachother And Really Wanna Be With Eachother. It Might Be That You're Just Spending Too Much Time With Eachother ?? This Can Kinda Make You Bored Of Eachother, And Then You Don't Really Appreaciate The Time You Have Together... Or You Are Just Letting Little Things Get To You. If Thats The Case Just Remember How Much You Want It To Work And Forget About It Unless It Is Really Important. Or, The Case May Be Neither Of You Can Cope With It. See How Things Go, If He Doesn't Change, Either Separate, Or End It.
sexyhornybubble, 15, United Kingdom
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is it worth it if you fight all the time?
xxdiedprettyxx, 17, Australia

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