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Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

Dear Advice Girl,

My bf goes to college far away, and I think he might be cheating on me. Sometimes we go days without talking. I know he's busy with school and everything, but you think he'd make time to talk to his girlfriend. I don't know what to do.

Signed,
   Amber

Dear Amber,

Long-distance college relationships are usually huge bummers. Even if your guy isn't cheating on you, he's doing so much fun stuff with new people that he might not stay emotionally faithful (or even remember to call you).

And it's only gonna get worse. The more time he spends at college, the more detached he'll be from his old life.

This is gonna sound harsh, but you've gotta let him go. Give him a chance to do the college thing, and give yourself a chance to get more involved in high school.

And if it's truly meant to be, you'll be waiting for each other next summer.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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every lad needs his own space and in a realationship it is 50/50 nt just him all the tym u shud ring him cos thats the same wit ma gal
dan2007, 16,
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Wow, that`s really hard. If you REALLY, and I mean REALLY think that he`s cheating on you, symptoms are included, try going to the college(save money, of course.) BUT, that`s not really a great idea. He`ll go thinking that you don`t trust him.
hhavoc, 17, New York, NY
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i say let him go cuz if it's ment to be he'll be waiting for u. so get out there and find something new have fun
cherish101, 16, Cedar Rapids, IA
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id split up with him, i mean hes out there meeting new people, having fun and yoor at home waiting for his call hun, ive been in this situation before, try meeting someone new or yoor going to get hurt x
a_silent_disaster, 15, United Kingdom
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i've been in that situation before my bf lived in PA and i live in MA so it was hard and he stopped calling me and returning my phone calls and i thought he was cheating on me-he was with my cuzin i'm not saying he is cheating on you, if you think he is faithful and you trust him stay with him but if you have doubts it's time to move on.
anonymous
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Give him a chance to do the college thing, and give yourself a chance to get more involved in high school. lifes to short you can also tell him her a text a day wouldnt take more then 4 secs atleast let me know your still thinkin of me
leilani_17, 19, Roy, UT
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wow, okay let's see, first: you're guy if he's any good at all and respected you while he was able to be with you then he wouldn't let something as meeningless as distance ruin a good relationship, two: if you don't trust him to stay faithful then why are you with him in the first place, and just cause you go a few days without talking doesn't mean anything, three: i'm in the same situation and my gf lives 800 miles away and there are times when i want to call her but school and sports and everything else overwhelm me, so i can't. finally, don't worry about it. if he loves you and you felt it when he said it and if he was good to you while you were together then he'll stay faithful to you. if he is cheating then that's just sad and he doesn't know what he has, just like the majority of a lot of guys i know. do your best to have a have in him.
dbsige, 16, Oklahoma City, OK
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We'll if your that worried then make the ground nutral. Break up and see other people. If his reaction to this news is mellow than he probably is cheating. If he doesn't want to then he's probably faithful. either way you are young and should have fun while you can. Your too young to worry about long term relationships at this point. There is so much more ahead.
anonymous
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well do you trust him not to cheat on you? if you don't you shouldn't be with him.
xxdiedprettyxx, 17, Australia
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ive been in a situation kinda like that... it sucked as hell. it seeming all unfair and all. try to do everything you can to reach him... and maybe he'd do the same. if you really loved each other as much, "distance wouldn't matter." ;)
chikitah92, 16, Orlando, FL

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